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"As is a tale so is life, not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters."  Seneca




None of us knows how long our lives will be, but we do know that it is GOODness that makes it worth living and unites us all.

But what models of goodness do we provide our children?

Who are their heroes?

Are they simply "famous" people?

Or are they GOOD people who can inspire our children to be GOOD too?


After the heart-wrenching tragedy of Newton, it was hard for any of us to believe in any goodness amidst such an agony of suffering.

"...like 9/11 Newton contained within it, the ongoing fact of revelation.   Both 9/11 and Newtown were marked by a revealing of the goodness of normal people which is seldom celebrated, but is central to the balance of the world.  When teachers tried to shield the children, it was a revelation of their goodness,   It is important, in part, because, by the light of the goodness of others -by that light, we can see ourselves”

Eugene Kennedy, Psychologist, Professor Emeritus at Loyola University

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As parents and educators, we soon learn that our job is not simply to eradicate all trials and tragedies from our children's lives.  Rather it is to give them the wisdom and the courage they will need to navigate life's stormy waters, tame the demons, and kill the dragons!

Newberry Medalist winner, Katherine Paterson, explains that good books are really a great way for children to "practice" life.  But children need us to share books that can offer such an opportunity BEFORE they are needed - that is before the child suffers a devastating loss or an unexpected betrayal.

"Fairy tales do not tell children that the dragons exist.  Children already know that dragons exist.  Fairy tales tell children the dragons can be killed."  G.K. Chesterton

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The two most important ingredients of any children's book, according to Jane Yolen,  are - hope and joy.







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"Beneath the muck and scum of things, there something always, always sings."  Emerson

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Julian of Norwich was a medieval, English mystic, who maintained that :

"All shall be well, all shall be well, and all manner of thing shall be well."

Madeleine L'Engle believed that this "all wellness" should be at the heart of every single children's book. 

But what does it mean, this "all wellness?"

Well, maybe it is easier to begin with what it does NOT mean.  I do not think it means that we have to feed children some naïve, Pollyanna, pie-in-the-sky stories that completely disregard the sadnesses that simmer beneath our lives.

Rather I think it has to do with having a stalwart belief in what all good stories from the Chronicles of Narnia to the Harry Potter series center around - and that is, despite our troubled times and dark days, despite the evil doers and the naysayers of the world, despite all of that....

GOOD is more powerful than Evil....

LOVE can conquer Hate

HOPE is what we humans DO (even if we do not always feel it)

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Friends are the Elixir of Life! 

 

 

Whether it is Pooh Bear and Piglet, Charlotte and Wilbur, or Amos and Boris, we know that good friends can look very different on the outside - after all, opposites attract! 

 

We also know that good friends make life worth living - they help us love more and see life from a different angle.

 

 

In fact, good friends are a lot like good books.

 

They encourage us.

 

 

They help us see the world a little differently.

 

 

They can make us feel bold and brave.

 

 

They can make us laugh or cry.

 

 

They can make us wonder.

 

They remind us that we are not alone in this world.

 

Margaret Drabble maintained that we were put on this earth to "endeavor in the face of the impossible."  Good friends help us do just that - endeavor!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



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"The best way to know God is to love many things."

Vincent Van Gogh

 

 

 

 

I love pondering the infinite aspect of love and creativity.  It is easy for children to understand when I tell them that my grandmother had nine children, and my mother had three children, but my grandmother did not love her nine children any less than my mother loved her three children.  It is a bit like the magic well in the fairy tales.  As long as you keep dipping your ladle into the well, it will never run dry.  So too with our hearts, as long as we choose to keep loving, then our magic wells - our hearts - will never run dry!  And as long as we keep creating, we will never run out of things to create.

 

A LOVELY writing and life exercise for children and adults - at end of every day:

 

Write down three things that you LOVED about your day.

 

You should really never run out of things to write about!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



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Love inspires

 

 

 

 

 

 

My second book, Inventor McGregor, is all about a jolly fellow by the name of Hector McGregor who discovers that the source of inspiration lies in the heart of his happy, happy home - surrounded by his cheery wife, five children and a hen called Hattie.  In other words LOVE inspires him, as it does all of us, I believe.

 

 

Inspire is a Latin word - INSPIRARE - and it means to breath life into.  Isn't that a powerful definition?

 

 

So while it is love that inspires us all, it will be a different love for different people.  But whether it is science, baseball, dinosaurs, Mozart, hiking, swimming, baking, painting, or writing, these loves make us want to live more, they put us in touch with our better selves and help us make the world a better place. 

 

“Love the earth and sun and animals.  Despise riches.  Give alms to anyone who asks.  Stand up for the stupid and the crazy.  Devote your income and labor to others......and your very flesh shall be a great poem”  Whitman

 

                                                                                  

 

 

A good question to end each day -

 

"What breathed life into me?"